For most guys, the number one place they think of when they want to go out and meet a woman is at a popular nightspot, which is almost always a nightclub or a bar. But, most single men do find that it's not that easy to approach a woman in a bar or a nightclub. They get intimidated, especially if the woman is really good looking or seems to be getting a lot of attention from other men. If you allow this to intimidate you or keep you from making your way over to her, you are guaranteed one thing: that nothing will happen with her.
If you want to be able to start getting more attention and more dates with women, then this is something that you are going to need to overcome. After all, the game is laid out so that men are the ones who have to make the initial approach most of the time. Are there any tips that can make things easier for you to approach a woman in a bar or a nightclub?
Here are three tips on approaching a woman in a nightclub or a bar that should make things a little easier for You:
1. When you walk up to a woman, you want to make sure that your body language sends the right signals.
Sometimes, guys place too much emphasis on trying to look cool and when they do that, they end up sending out the wrong signal with their body language. They end up sending out a message that they are not really that friendly or that they are just simply trying way too hard to get attention from women. This is not the best way to approach a woman, as it will more than likely make her want to get away from you as soon as possible. Be open with your body language and make it abundantly clear that you are a friendly and inviting kind of guy.
2. When you start talking to a woman, you want to make sure that it is not a one sided conversation.
The worst kind of conversation to have with anyone (not just women), is a one sided conversation. IF she feels like you are doing all of the talking and not giving her much of a chance, do you think that she will want to continue talking to you? Probably not, right? More than likely she will get tired of this fast and end up finding a way to say good bye to you. Let her do some of the talking and let the conversation be FUN for her and for you as well.
3. You need to be able to communicate attraction without seeming like you are just trying to pick her up.
One of the quickest ways to guarantee that you get the cold shoulder from most single women out there is to make it look like all you are going for is a pick up. Think about it. Most women go out to have a good time and hopefully meet a good guy. They want to feel like they are not just being looked at as a pick up. Sure, that may be what you really want, but as long as it does not seem that way, you are more than likely going to have a much better chance at getting somewhere with her.
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